http://fowlists.blogspot.com.au/p/welcome.html Good free army list builder i use this one alot for toying with ideas for lists.
http://www.flamesofwar.com/ The home of flames of war with a online store and good forum.
http://www.waylandgames.co.uk/ Has a vast range of war games board games and modeling stuff.
http://www.gamesofwar.net/index.html Good online store site with free shipping worldwide if order over the 10 pound mark.
http://thehobbystop.co.nz/ My local store great guy very helpful has war game room at back of shop.
http://www.huttclub.co.nz/ My local war games club in Upper Hutt. Great bunch of guys to play.